(F32) Need advice on this guy (M 35) I met on a dating App

Hey guys, I need some male opinion on this guy I met on a dating app. We have been on one date and overall the date was good, but I feel like he might only be interested in sex and nothing more. First of all in his Profile it said that he isn't sure yet what he is looking for. My Profile stated that I want a serious relationship. During our date he told a story about seeing people having sex against a window at a Hotel that we passed. I found that an odd story for a first date, but fine. During the second part of the date (it was a long date 😅) he started making more phsyical contact, like touching my hand, my shoulder etc. which I didn't mind, because I felt attracted to him. He would also already suggest things we could do together, like rooftop Bar or cinema. He even wrote down my birthday, that is coming up in a couple of weeks, after me mentioning it and said that we could do something for my birthday together. After the date he drove me back to my place and while we we're in the car, he would hold my hand and he kissed it (which kind of irritated me). And then he asked me if I liked massages, to which I replied "who doesn't" and then he said that I was lucky, because he was really good at it, to which I said nothing. Why would you ask that on a first date? The next day he texted me and asked if I would like to go out next Friday (so today). I said yes, but we hadn't arranged a time etc. yet. Then he didn't Text me for the whole week. So today I asked him if we we're still on for tonight. He texted me that he was very tired and just wanted to go home rest and that the weather is also not that good. I said okay, no problem. Then he replied to that with "didn't you miss me at all"? Why would he even ask that? So I feel like he just wants to have some fun, but isn't interested in something serious (at least not with me). Would like to hear your opinions.

Posted Nov 14, 2025, 6:51 PM UTC

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