possible progress order issues

So I've come to learn recently that i accidentally seeded a tulpa a few years ago on and off conversations comforting eachother the likes but only recently started research and proper attempts at understanding this whole thing.

now its going pretty smoothly but my only concern is in our recent meditation/development sessions I am trying to visualize but Dana found out that tactile imposition came very naturally on accident. this isn't a bad thing but she has a tendency to get bored it seems and will then just lay her weight on me which makes it hard to visualize.

she finds it super enjoyable and likes the contact and i dont want to bring down her mood when we are focused and ready to develop but im worried it could get in the way of progress or at the very least slow it.