Almost 11 months post-discard, and I'm FINALLY on the other side! Hurray!!!!

Hey, guys! It finally happened. I'm on the other side.

I'm feeling so much better. I remember how intense the discard was, how much pain I felt, and now I don't even miss my DA ex anymore. Most of the memories have all faded away. I almost have zero thoughts of them daily. Sometimes I do remember something he said, or a good moment we had, but then I go on carrying the day normally.

And something that I fully recommend is blocking your ex. Block them on all social media platforms, on your phone, everything. Don't keep in touch, don't send that "Happy Birthday" message. It's not worth it! It's been 3 months since I blocked him, and people are not kidding around with the saying: "Out of sight, out of mind".

Well, it was a pleasure being with you guys for almost a year! Your posts really helped me during troubled times. I remember how I would read posts such as this one and wish that day would come for me, the day I'd be happy and over my DA ex. And that moment finally came! Thank you so much to all of you who took the time to share your stories and vulnerabilities. Your stories and kind words helped me overcome the discard. This group also helped me focus on a healing journey to become secure so I can attract someone secure, and the love I truly deserve. The love we all deserve.

PS: No, I'm not seeing anyone, and I'm not going on dates. Almost a year single and celibate now, but I've never felt so pretty and content. I know when the moment is right, the right person will join me in this crazy thing called life. :)