Am I aego?
First off- sorry if this post isn't allowed. I couldn't find a monthly mega thread for November and I'm desperate for answers.
So I'm here because I'm a bisexual woman and realized that when it comes to having real life sexual acts that I'm not repulsed per se, but that I don't like them at all. I have plenty of sexual fantasies and masturbate often. I read smut, watch porn, listen to sexual music.
I've been kinda surfing through websites on Aegosexuality and I believe I might be Aego but what confuses me is that some of my fantasies include myself. While these fantasies include myself, I have no like actual desire to have real life sex. Again, I'm not grossed out by real-life sex but I don't like it and it feels wrong to me whenever these acts should include myself.
I like physical touch a lot but when it gets to actual sex I feel afraid and just..not good. Can someone help me figure out if I'm Aego or if I better fit another label please?
Posted Nov 14, 2025, 7:00 PM UTC