just because you're "safe horny" doesn't make you any less gross/misogynistic

i see this in a lot of anime/gamer communities that tend to not lean into misogyny overtly/are not the typical "gamer bro" (kinda-very right winger) communities with characters like invisigal or BB, where all the art or discussion around the characters is around them "being mommies" and all the comments are some variation of "step on me" etc etc. you are just as gross and misogynistic as those other communities, and you think because you are "submissive" in this scenario it makes it any less alienating or weird for people lol