Giving it all to the kids ruins everything

Breaking mom and other places show so much disdain for their husbands and then consequently, sex in general.

I get the ones who say their husband doesn't care about their pleasure or doesn't make it romantic or ones that say he forces them in various ways... Sure.

But this type of complaint is literally posted multiple times a day in all mom subreddits.

Even if it is not that he is a deadbeat who does nothing. It is that she is a stay at home mom and gasp she has to do, mothering. One of the more recent posts really rubbed me the wrong way. She complains about having too much time with the kids lately due to the holiday.

But then, asingular appointment? Just don't take the kid to school at all, and then complain about it.

A holiday? Bitch that the kid is home.

Not a holiday? Bitch that you had to get them up early and ready for school.

She CHOSE to do a "deep clean" of the whole house during a "hard time" where she says she has limited free time.

She CHOSE to give a FULL DAY to care for a friend's baby.

And it's "FUCK THIS MAN FOR WANTING OUR RELATIONSHIP TO EVEN REMOTELY RESEMBLE HOW IT DID BEFORE THE MARRIAGE!?!?"

"WHAT DO YOU MEAN I CAN'T CROCHE THE ENTIRETY OF FRIDAY??"

The 30-45 minutes of sex at all, or even the mentioning that it gasp exists (sounds like he flirted with her), is going to ruin her eight hours of uninterrupted "me" time.

But we are supposed to want the joys of children? Ones they can't stand to be around under almost any circumstance? Ones that take all their touch stimulation capacity, patience, and time?

Ones in the comments lament about wishing for their man to go on a long trip even though they don't state that she does all the child work alone. It's just apparently supposed to be accepted as fact that moms of young kids are miserable and want nothing to do with their partner even if he is great.