Having a tough time - 19 Crossflow vs 20 Helix 2.0

I want a new Model Y soon but having a terrible time with what wheels to get. I preferred the older Gen 20 inch black turbines. I will be driving on city streets with a medium amount of rough roads and potholes and 60% on the highway. Friends told me just get the 19 crossflows for comfort and ease of maintenance.

The crossflows don't look bad - they've grown on me. Especially since I'm getting a Diamond Black Model Y. The Helix 2.0 looks nice to me for the size but I don't like the color and would need to darken by powder coating or buying covers off EVbase.com. But that's quite a range but just getting the Helix.

Any suggestions on what to do for wheels if I'm getting Diamond Black? Any of you have picks of a black juniper Y and your current wheels, or recs?