27 [M4F] #UK #Online - excitable and nerdy switch seeking someone to be curious about life & kink with

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About me:

6'0, 215lbs, longish brown hair in a wolfcut, green eyes, very white, broad and masculine. No tattoos or piercings but looking into it!

Interests: gaming (switch 2+laptop) animanga, lots of music+podcasts. Fragrances, fashion, interior design. Baking bread, pastries, and sweet treats, stopping to pet cats on the street. Yearning for learning! It's really easy to get me interested in something if you're passionate about it. Aspiring cinephile (if you recommend something I probably have seen but will add it to my list and get to it... eventually).

I'm also trying to recover the creative spark that got grinded down by STEM via journaling and crafts, so if you're a creative person I'll be instantly enamoured with you!

Considered a national traitor for not liking tea (or any hot drinks for that matter) but loooove rainy days with a childlike passion. Non smoker/drinker. Very monogamous. Leaning towards no kids but open to the conversation. Really good at yapping, organising, and making lists (can you tell?). I'd like to think I am very much my own person.

Kinky stuff:

The things I value most in kink are self expression, flexibility, and fun. Being a switch speaks to me not just in a dom/sub way, but also in being able to play around with different dynamic types. I love people who can be subby and obedient one day, super bratty or difficult the next, and then teasing and dommey another.

I'd say I'm mostly dom leaning, but I don't really buy into a specific style or dynamic type. A lot of my natural personality remains during kinky play, so I'll almost always remain pretty open and playful. So if you find an ever changing and fluid kinky dynamic more appealing than something set in stone with rules and traditions, maybe we'd get along!

Looking for:

Grounded, bubbly, curious. Appreciation for small things. Love swapping little stories or pictures from the day, people watching, and day trips.

Emotional & ‘regular’ intelligence - I love a challenge, learning something new, having my mind changed.

Shared interests, shared humour, shared anything and everything.

Ideally would prefer someone UK based but it's not a strict requirement for the right person - I've considered moving abroad and often gaze longingly at international job listings. Pic of you is appreciated when reaching out, will happily reciprocate with more clear pics than above!

Ideally under 30 and have a level of independence/direction in life.

I thought about asking for specific things I'd like to know if you were to reach out, but I think the way someone decides to introduce themselves says a lot in itself! Thanks for reading, take care :)

Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:37 PM UTC · locked

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