26M Minnesota Seeking Male Caretaker/Partner/Emotional support.
Hello there! I'm Disco! I have been searching for a while but figured I would give reddit a try. I have been searching for someone to start building my life with, an emotional companion, best friend, and caregiver all in one. I enjoy spending time with people whenever I can and am definitely more of a social butterfly than an isolated introvert. For me, having a caretaker isn't really a kink, it's about a feeling of comfort, safety, and belonging. As a tall and masculine male I've struggled my whole life with feeling like I'm unwanted as a little due to my physical nature, but I'm hoping to have that proven wrong. Despite my masculine features, I'm a big fragile softie at heart that just needs love and attention and wants to give it back as well. Ideally I would like to find someone within a drivable distance from Minnesota (Maybe up to 5 or 6 hours) but honestly, I care more about finding the RIGHT person, so if you're someone who would enjoy things such as being in charge, picking outfits, reading stories, playing games together, just spending time together whenever possible and building a real connection, then THAT is what I care about most, and I'm always willing to wait or try to work things out with the right person, so while long distance isn't the most ideal, I could work with it as long as there were plans down the road if things were to click properly to move closer. My DM's are open if you think this interests you. Please not that while I do have a few kinks I enjoy, I am not the most sexual person and would need time to become comfortable with anything of the sort. I am not looking for someone who wants a heavy focus on sex, I am looking to feel safe and cared for, and to hopefully return some happy feelings as well.
Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:38 PM UTC