[astro-seek] Why Do I Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners?
Hi everyone,
I've been working on myself in therapy and have noticed a recurring pattern in my love life over the past 3 years. I often find myself with partners who don't fully choose me, I've been told I'm "boring" or that they're still hung up on an ex.
I also recognize my own difficulty with emotional vulnerability, which I'm sure plays a part.
I'm attaching my birth chart and would be grateful if you could point out any aspects that might relate to this. I'm especially curious about:
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Indicators for being perceived as "boring" or safe.
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Patterns of attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
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Aspects that describe my challenge with vulnerability and how to work with them.
I'm not looking to blame my chart, but to understand my energy better for personal growth. Thank you for any insights! :D
Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:40 PM UTC