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Maximumaffort

32 [M4F] California - help me get off the dating apps!

NSFWM4F California

I'm a nerdy goofball in search of a nerdy goofball in LA. Trying to post this before the weekend to find someone to vibe with and make weekend plans.

Interests: conventions, bar hopping, happy hours, barcades, comedy, karaoke, emo/goth nights, seasonal and/or weird events, thrifting, latin dancing, etc.

Also like low energy things like movies, anime, gaming, (trying to get into) art (doing and gallery's), studying.

Locations: downtown, ktown, eagle rock, highland park, passadena, echo park, silver lake, etc.

Would love to find a life partner just finding that ghosting or fizzling out are the main reasons a connection doesn't happen on here and apps.

What apps are you using? Want to talk smack about it? What's the experience like for you? Been on there long?

Marking nsfw because you never know.

Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:45 PM UTC · locked

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