AITA for doing my laundry and the dishes while my sister-in-law takes a shower?

Some backstory: I (29F) live with my in-laws after moving back from another city with my boyfriend (30M). We both have jobs, pay rent, do chores and buy/cook our own food. After work I usually do all the dishes in the house but last night I went to bed early as I was sick. I woke up really early this morning and couldn’t get back to sleep so I decided to do some of the chores. I loaded the dishwasher but decided to wait to run it after I had breakfast (approx. 8am) and was doing our laundry. My sister-in-law (17F) woke up at 8:30am and went into a shower and I thought “oh no” as I had just started the dishwasher and another load of laundry 20 mins prior. I knew she would freak out as this has happened before. Afterward she got out of the shower, she kept saying how much she hated everyone in the house. AITA?

Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:46 PM UTC

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