My black brother is turning into an incel
He calls himself a "blackcel" all the time. I tell him to stop calling himself that and that incel culture is racist and he should stop associating with it, but he says he doesn't care and that "if it takes me associating with a racist culture to recognize truth, so be it "
I don't get it. He constantly calls everything "cope" and says he needs to "thugmax". I called one of my hairstyles a protective hairstyle and he said I was coping with wanting to wear Indian hair. He's my little brother too. It's ridiculous.
He says things like "black guys have to thugmax because we're too orc looking to act like humans"
What the fuck kind of shit is that? Insane. Yesterday he told me "I have to thugmax, that's the only way I'm gonna get girls. If I don't, I'll just be a way uglier version of a nonblack guy. Who wants that?'
I'm trying to tell him to love himself but he's 17 and tells me he's supposed to have lost his virginity by now. I tell him he has time but hes not listening to me. Not sure how to get him out of these thought patterns. One day he said "the whole point of girls dating black men is to date a thug. If he's not a thug what's the point?"
We're not growing up in the hood so maybe he's developing some kind of complex or something. It's driving me up a wall. Not sure what to do about this but yeah just wanted to get it off my chest.
Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:46 PM UTC