Is loosing feelings for someone normal?
Just as the title says, I have been in a relationship with this guy since 5 months. Which sounds pretty new and it is. He's the perfect guy. I mean based on my past experiences, this guy is everything i could ask for. He cares about me deeply and loves me more than I could ever love him. Now the catch is, I am someone whos going through alot of shit in my family and have some issues with depression and anxiety. So I already have alot on my plate. And I really don't like giving updates about everything or what time I slept or woke up or went to college etc etc. and that is all my bf asks. Yeah he just cares about me and wants to know but man I can't. And we did have a conversation about it. Where he says that's what people in relationship do.
He doesn't force these things on me but does ask me if I didn't tell me. Which I find annoying. And he's also all over the idea of having a 'gf'. What I mean is, yj those men who like their trophy wife's and don't see them as a person but just a trophy they can show off to people??
Yeahh that
Apart from these 2 things he's literally the best but I don't know if I should breakup with him over these things or am I being the asshole here? I did try to work it out but I don't know what to do.
Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:47 PM UTC