I just had the best sex of my entire life and need to talk about it.

I promise the sexual details are in here, but let me start with a recap, I (22M) have been with my bf (39M) for 10 months now. The first time we had sex was the day he asked me to be his boyfriend, after about a month of dating without a label, and a month of talking before that, so we’ve known each other for nearly a year. The first time we had sex was amazing, no complaints, and I didn’t think it could get better, but man I guess I was wrong.

Relevant to the story, me and him both have ADHD, the struggles are something we’ve bonded over. I’ve chosen to treat mine with a prescription stimulant (Zenzedi), he said he was on prescription stimulants years before we met and the side effects were too much so he has always self medicated with nicotine (vaping) and caffeine. I didn’t really have a problem with it, he wasn’t a compulsive vaper all day every day, but when he needed to sit still and work he would always have it with him.

For health reasons, he wanted to quit vaping, which I supported him through, and he took my suggestion to see a psychiatrist again to explore the possibly of a non-stimulant treatment option, because I pointed out there’s a lot more options today for adult ADHD than there was when he was younger, and just because I take a stimulant doesn’t mean he has to.

All of this has been working out great for him, he thinks the medication and his psychiatrist have made it easier to stay off nicotine, and he hasn’t felt the need to buy more since he feels like he can focus when he works. I was super happy for him because I know how relieving it feels to finally find something that works after years of failing, then settling for damaging your health just to treat your symptoms.

Anyway, despite all this goodness, the main drawback of the combination of him cutting out most of his stimulant intake, plus the introduction of an SNRI, his libido really started suffering around September even though the medication was working better by the day. I’m a horny guy but I never made him feel any pressure for not being in the mood, but after a while it started bothering him more than it bothered me. If we were cuddling and he felt me get a hard on, he would say “I want to have sex right now, I promise I’m attracted to you, I don’t know why I can’t”.

I’ve always done my best to comfort him, the side effects on my libido were a deciding factor in my decision to choose a stimulant over a non-stimulant. And I think he felt a certain level of guilt for choosing a medication knowing this side effect was a possibility. And i wished I could have taken it away but…

Unknown to me he decided to talk to his doctor about the side effects and got a prescription to help him get it up, not even sure which one if not viagra, but O..M..G.

Last night, we were snuggled up watching our show, my head on his shoulder, he kissed me on the forehead and that’s enough for me to completely involuntarily get rock hard right up against his leg. 10 minutes later I felt him getting hard too, naturally I got excited but tried to contain it and just be cool, I kissed him, started touching him through his pants, and he started moaning in my mouth. It had been quite a few weeks since I had done anything other than jerk off by myself so I couldn’t resist, I pulled his pants off and jumped down to put his dick in my mouth. I told him I like dominance in bed, but he had never done it like this. As soon as I went down to put his whole thing in my mouth, he grabbed both sides of my head and started slowly thrusting in and out of my throat and was groaning his nickname for me and incoherently mumbling about how good I felt. Feeling his muscular legs tremble and watching his eyes roll back, and the incoherent moaning, I swear I could have cum right there.

When he pulled me up to kiss me he whispered in my ear “i need you, i need you bad” he flipped me on my back, lubed us both up, and leaned down to kiss my neck and caress my beard while I guided it inside and he gently stretched me back open for him. I was moaning in his ear and trembling but he just couldn’t stop sucking my neck, his perfect hairy chest skin-to-skin with mine. Once he was all the way in he wasted no time going faster and harder, we were both moaning in each others ears and then he started intensely kissing me and pulled back just enough to look me in the eye and say “I love you so much, you’re mine, and I’m yours” continuing to fuck me harder, and that was it, for the first time in my life I came hands free, my dick was barely touched. He thought I would need a break after that but I told him “dont you dare stop” 😂 I swear I’d never needed someone so bad before.

We flipped over to probone position where he has to bite at my ear every time, which made me moan like crazy, and he came so deep in me, and then put all his body weight on mine, leaving his dick inside, catching his breath in my ear, dick still throbbing. I asked if he needed a break and he said “not if you don’t”

I didn’t😂he flipped on his back and I started riding him but even with me on top he couldn’t resist taking control. Holding onto my hips and just holding me in the perfect position to hit my prostate with every trust. This was like ecstasy to me, I was jerking off and he was hitting the spot just right. It didn’t take too much longer before I recognized his face and he said “Babe, I’m gonna cum again” — he held me down with one hand on my waist, and moved his other hand to my dick and I shot a huge load right as he put another one in me, and I screamed without meaning to because he kept stroking it😭. But by then both of us agreed we’re a little sore and need a break. He brought me food, water, and we cuddled the whole night. I hated that we both have work today but I love this man so much.

I’m now on my lunch break, I’m working from home today and so is he, and he texted me he can’t wait for another good time tonight if I’m up for it. I’m sitting here, and it’s all I can think about. My best friend is also working rn so it’s reddit that gets the tea😅

I’ve never had more satisfying sex in my entire life, and I can’t believe I get to have it again tonight😂I’m so lucky I found him.

If you’re reading this because you’re contemplating giving the older/younger guy you’re into a chance, do it. ;)