Molnija, Promise, Zvezda marks, branding like cattle?

I think the marks are cool but looking at them it seems that they could be looked at as a bad thing as the Dhampirs are 'marked' like cattle and in a sense sold to the highest bidder when they graduate from school. Then they are further used by getting Molnija and Zvezda marks but not anyone else who fought aka Christian and Rosemarie. If Christian got a mark as well then it's equal system, not just so one sided.

I just have a character who views the marks as such and I was wondering if there was a way to change her mind.