Instant chemistry
Hey let me start out by saying I'm not in the dating game but I am over 30, a mother, and have been quite out of touch with myself as a woman since having my second kid 3 years ago. I've been unwell, under a lot of stress, and not really vibing with myself.
I was out on a girl's night at the weekend for the first time in a long time. In the club, I met someone on the dancefloor and the vibes / chemistry between us was undeniable and immediate.
We started dancing a little closer, I was curious to his energy, and suddenly some euphoric force came over me, it was as if time completely stopped. Then he put his hands on my hips, and when he did that, it just lit up an enormous fire in me, some kind of long-forgotten furnace that I didn't even know was still there. I feel like it was my sacral chakra suddenly becoming activated.
How do I manage the effects of this experience which was an instant, strong magnetic attraction to someone that just drops out of the sky, who you never intended to meet and who wasn't even your "type"?
I'm trying to figure out if I was primed for it, or if God sent this person to me to show me what I've been missing. The past four days since this encounter I just feel so emotionally unstable, like I've been on fire and so activated spiritually.
I know absolutely nothing about him, apart from his name, and the fact he's married with kids. I felt compelled to ask his name out of a genuine sense of "Who tf is this guy and why has he made me feel like this?!", that was after we had already kissed. We both have kids, and we won't ever see each other again.
Wtf is happening?
Posted Nov 28, 2025, 5:50 PM UTC