35 [M4F] #MA - looking for online connections

currently in a marriage that has begun to lose its spark, and would love to find someone to chat with online to inject a little excitement back into these boring days. my availability can be a bit sparse/inconsistent, as i obviously don't want her to know what i'm doing and have to be secretive. but when i am available, id love to have actual conversation about our days or interest, open to nsfw chatting and pic sharing eventually, but doesn't have to be right away.

about me: 6', 210, average/dad build, brown hair and eyes with glasses and a beard. again, willing to share pics if desired. im into videogames and anime as much as i am football, hockey, and being active outside (hiking, hunting, etc)

please include basics like ASL when you message at first, then we can get into as much or as little detail as you want. looking forward to hearing from you 😁