34M4F CA/Online - Still hunting for miss right

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Is that you….? We’ll have to find out :)

I’m looking for someone to spend my days with chatting about anything and everything. Long term preferably, with that lovely spark of checking my phone for your message, or the excitement of seeing a picture of you.

I’ve been here a few times over the years, I’ve had 2 long term (6-8 months) relationships from this subreddit. I know how this works, it doesn’t matter if this is your first time doing this or just another attempt at it. I’m searching for someone who wants a true connection, someone that wants to laugh together, be happy or flirty when chatting, and overall a positive part of each other’s days. Open to single, long term relationship, or married women.

About myself: I’m 34 and I’m from California. I’m married with two kids. I’m 6’, white, in good shape, brown hair, sometimes clean shaven, sometimes scruffy, sometimes I have a stache to pass as a cop or firefighter. My interests are all over the place; sports, music, cars, cooking, gaming, hiking, theme parks, tv/movies, im a bit of a nerdy/jock/music snob haha.

About you: I do apologize, but I’m going to be slightly specific in who I’m searching for.

I’m looking for someone who’s 28 or younger, and not bbw/curvey. If you consider yourself more on the slight chubby side, that’s okay. And I won’t say on here, but you may score bonus points for being a certain ethnicity. Also, please put forth effort into being a part of the relationship, I will give this my all if you do.

I may lose some here, but that’s okay. I’ll be patient for the right one.

I’m a very sexual person/hyper sexual. By no means and I’m saying to bring up sex/sexting right away. I am just bringing awareness that it’s a part of who I am, and I want someone with similar libido to match me. I have many, many kinks, and even some taboos if we get that far, maybe you’ll find out what they are.

I’m looking forward to meeting you, if you hesitate at all thinking about messaging me or not, please do. You’ll never know what you’re missing out on until you try :)

Posted Dec 1, 2025, 3:00 AM UTC

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