Made out with my date and couldn’t maintain an erection. I feel so ashamed

Coping

I’m (28) a virgin and I’m suffering from PFS for more than 3 years now. My symptoms are not only erectile dysfunction, but also low volume of semen

Recently, I’ve been asked out on a date by a woman and I couldn’t say no. I seemed to get erections more often because of the tensions between us.

Last night, we were making out and I came very easily when she was rubbing her body on me. After that, I couldn’t get an erection at all.

I felt so ashamed but had to cover it up with foreplay. I have no idea on how to even prepare myself to have sex with her when the time comes.

I’m still hoping for a miracle

Posted Dec 1, 2025, 3:03 AM UTC

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