Let me know what to do.please

My boyfriend and I are together for three years. We don't celebrate our anniversary and we have never celebrated it. We both live in california and recently I started a new job as a travel tech. I'm currently staying at Missouri and he flew to see me and he said he wanted to celebrate our anniversary together. It was very weird because he never cared before. But he was controlling before. I used to work in conservation, which is a male dominated industry, I made friends, male friends, and those friends are good friends. We would all go out including my boyfriend but he would always make comments how he doesnt even wanna be there. And one time, my good friend is throwing a friends giving party. He invited both of us and I told my boyfriend that I will go and he's welcom to go with me. He started telling me how he doesn't wanna be around slapdicks and if I go and something bad happens to me, he will not be there for me. These people has never given him any reason for him to hate them so much. He just didn't want me to talk to guys because he keep saying he trust me but doesnt trust other men. Which make sense, but most of my co workers are men. Especially now that I work in a highly male dominated field. Before he flew to missouri, he told me he'll be staying for a week, when I picked him up , i saw 2 big bags. He then told me he wanna stay for two weeks. Which caught me off guard. After few days, we were having fun at a bar. And one of my former coworker at the conservation corps called me and his mood went 360. I declined the call and he started questioning me why he was calling me, which I didnt know why. So i told him, I'm not sure, maybe he just wanted to know what I do now and curious. And he just keep telling me to be honest with him and I told him I was being honest but if he doesnt wanna believe me thats fine because hes been like that for three years always thinking im doing so.ething else. He told me to shut up, whem I told him this is why I dont even wanna hear you and see you is because you do this thing all the time. And he keep telling me to shut up. I told him I work in a male dominated industry, especially now that there's just two females in the site including me. We had arguements before. I sacrificed two opportunities because he didnt want me to do it only to be told that I dont have a say in his life. And thats the reason why I got a travelling job instead. What should I do?