21 [F4M] #London - British girl looking for her American husband
Hi there , how are you? I understand that this is not the most conventional way to meet my match , however , how else is one expected to date in this day and age lol! I have tried to find someone on Reddit few times before to no avail, but I believe truly that my person is out there so I keep looking
I am brunette , olive skinned , 5,9 in height and dress size medium though I’m steadily bringing this down to a small , tall slender women look so elegant in my opinion! I dream of being a mum and a wife , raising a big family without the input of iPads or TikTok! Kids should play and grow happily, just as I was raised and I’m sure you were too. I have hopes of them being involved in growing vegetables with us , baking dinner , exploring their surroundings and seeing the world. I hope to meet someone else who also shares these ideals.
As someone hoping to become a wife in the near future, I believe it’s important to be supportive and ease daily stresses rather than add to them . Little things can amount to a lot , like the house being clean and your favourite pjs laid out as you get home from work , or dinner still being warm and ready to go. I’m quite strong in my beliefs that it’s not the woman’s job to answer back or question (this was just how I was raised) , but if there is a small hiccup, it’s definitely not to be done in front of anyone else. A unified approach is always best.
I am Roman Catholic and looking for someone who is also either Catholic or Christian or willing to listen about my faith and attend church as a family.
Aside from my traditional dream , my hobbies include travel , baking , hikes , puzzles , languages , Pilates , swimming and many more. I love animals and currently have a cat , although it would be lovely to eventually have horses or chickens.
As expected , my day to day beliefs also align with how I feel sexually : eager to please , though I can discuss this more with the right person.
I personally would be interested in living in the USA as I like the conservative aspect and I love the idea of being a 1950 housewife , or a American tradwife in general
About you : I’m starting to realise more and more as I get older that looks only go so far , so as long as you are taller than me and well kept to an extent ( within a healthy weight range be hygienic) I don’t have any other requirements, I do ask your mindset be protective and respectful. I also ask that you are in a position to be ready to start our lives together.
I don’t want to rush into marriage as I want to find the one , but I also don’t want to have to be waiting years and years , I’d like a big family and marriage before kids so ideally 3/4 years starting or maybe just before.
I’m sure there is a lot I’ve left out or things I’ve forgotten to say , though that will leave us plenty to talk about .
Regarding location : I live in London however travel to the states a lot as I am in love with the way of life there , much more conservative than the UK , so yes I’m open to relocating and other than my cat( who must come with) , do not have anything tying me to the UK. With that being said , I’m born and raised in London and I’m not against the idea of starting a family here <3
Please let’s not bother wasting each others time , I am not interested in anywhere other than London or the USA, not interested in polygamy or non monogamy, not interested in changing religion or dating a religious extremist , not interested in anyone who isn’t yet prepared to start this life together, not interested in anyone over 40, not interested in anyone already divorced . ( you might not agree with my preferences but I’m sure there is someone perfect out there for you)
Kind regards , M
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 3:05 AM UTC