Looking for queer/trans friends?

Hello! My name is Kota, I'm a 27yo transfemme with. Virtually no friends. I spend most of my time at work (I'm a medic, long hours to make bills) and have lost a significant amount of my friends over the last two years due to everyone moving away, drift, and just. A lot of life events. My best friend moved to Taiwan about three weeks ago and the loneliness is crippling. I miss having friends, and I also have never had many queer/trans friends like myself.

I don't know really where to start, and I'm not a bar person, neither is my girlfriend. I heard advice a bit ago to try and hit up the Wormhole/Club One but my schedule and sobriety turns me off to the idea. Does anyone have any recs?I'm thinking of hitting up Roll The Bones and maybe some other tabletop places, but. I'm not sure where to start. It's not critical, and I don't need friends, but. Having people in my life again, being able to spend time together on days off or after work, inviting people over for dinner, ordering pizzas and playing video games, reading. Just. I miss that. So much.

If anyone has any ideas, please let me know!