39 (M4F) #SoCal - Thick, Introverted Latino Hot Mess Looking for an Alt Girl to Love

Hello there, I'm a 5'7" 39 year old heavy set Latino guy from the Inland Empire in Southern California. I have brown eyes, light olive skin, short black, hair and a scruffy beard shot with gray. I'm hoping to find someone I'm attracted to, who really enjoys the intimacy, safety and trust in a committed, monogamous, relationship, and want to experience that again with a woman whom I love. I'm looking for clingy, passionate, commitment, with lots of communication and tons and tons of physical affection.

I'm a stocky, awkward, introverted, anxious guy, who would self-describe as charmingly self-deprecating, innocuously misanthropic, irreverently humorous, a consummate indoorsman, and honestly a hot mess, who's kinda okay in the looks department if you like big guys. I enjoy video games (xbox) and desperately want to make the switch to PC, music (mostly rock and electronic) cannabis, 420 friendly, learning about the the paranormal/occult/extraterrestrial, and I like cooking and trying new recipes, tell me all about your favorite foods, and please let me cook for you.

I'd like to meet an attractive, child-free woman who's kind, compassionate, understanding, affectionate, and very clingy. Ideally I want someone who's as inexperienced in the bedroom as I, and someone less vanilla, I really like switches, soft/gentle dommes and would have no problem with a female led relationship, but these are not deal breakers. I'm attracted to most body types, from petite, to muscle mommies, to bbws, and adore large busts, pale skin, accents, and a fluffy bush, I have a thing for more alternative styled women, but it's not mandatory. Anyway that's what I'm hoping to find, please be ready to send your picture and I'll reply with mine, happy hunting and good luck everybody.