Please help me with some gay bar recommendations

I'm 32 male,live in orange ma, im looking for another male or trans girl, I have spent the past few months going down to the northampton / amherst area, Every time I look it up on Google, it always says that every bar down there is that way now, There is no specific gay bars anymore,okay, fine. I go down there every Friday and Saturday night ,everyone is either too old, straight or already has someone. Is my only other choice to go to Boston?That sounds fun.Drive an hour and a 1/2 pay $50 for parking.Have no idea where i'm going, Get honked at by everyone because i'm a country boy and I hate driving in the city, Spend all that money and time to not find anyone or to find someone perfect.And then they live in boston? I know from personal experience,Long distance doesn't work even an hour and a 1/2 distance would be too much I think.....idk I guess i'm having a rough go at it. Is there anything closer?perhaps lower Vermont or lower new hampshire?Please help 😅