Pedestalizing Women and Bringing Them Down to Earth

Alpha Bunny and the Apprentice

Recently I picked up an apprentice at work, lets call him Rick. Rick is a young man that I worked with and was very based as apprentices go. He can take a joke, and banter with the rest of the guys, he is self directed and curious to learn new things. Over the course of time we got to talking, and he asked me many things. From how to work with machinery, to sharpen knives and even where babies come from. He even asked me about relationships and how to "get da girls."

So I explained some basics about female nature, and that you are valued for your value and not what you think others should want. I elaborated further that as a man you must be useful, whilst holding frame. And I even gave some examples on teasing, bantering and becoming your woman's emotional drug dealer. Now here is where I found blind spots in Ricks views. He gasped at the idea that: open communication does not work, that you cannot reason a woman into bed.

But the most controversial idea was that a woman should not be your bestfriend, your soulmate, your therapist or Madonna. She can be a few things for you like: your lover, the girl that gives you peace, a mother to your kids etc, but she cant be everything. And if you try and make her everything she will disappoint you. Think of it like a movie or a game you are all hyped up about. Now when it actually comes out, it may actually be decent or even good, but because in your mind you exalted it up to high heaven, now you are disappointed. Women are the same way. They are nice, but cannot be your everything.

Woman as a Therapist

I have a buddy named wolfie. Earlier this year he was working as a firefighter when he got a call that one of his fellow ranger buddies had died that day. He kept his cool around the men and waited till the end of day where he went in private and grieved for a bit. Afterwards he called his girlfriend and told her that he feels lost and doesnt know how to process the death of his friend, afterall they spent Christmas together and now he is gone. She listened and responded with "is this going to affect our trip later on?" Wolfie was silent. Then she started talking about how she also had a bad day, and her boss is being an asshole. Wolfie hung up.

Wolfie then called me and told me that his friend died. I told him that I will come over right away. When I arrived I did not try to rationalize, justify or explain anything. All I did was show up for my boy, let him talk, and be support during his moment of weakness. Later on he relayed what happened between him and his girlfriend. Perhaps this example is a bit much, im sure there is women who respond better than this. But go ahead. Im sure you have some experience in opening up to a girl only to later have her use that information against you. Or perhaps you opened up and she lost attraction for you. Women telling you to "open up" does not mean vent and emotionally vomit on her; this statement requires nuance. If you need a reminder of what sharing your vulnerability with a woman does, read the story of Samson.

Woman as Bestfriend

What is a best friend? What do you do with your best friend? Surely you sit down and talk, while sipping on lattes right? And then you let them vent without doing anything. And only the other person's problems get listened to, your problems are not relevant. Thats what you do right? RIGHT?? If you have a female bestfriend thats what ends up happening. Now im not so dogmatic as to say dont ever have female friends, but have them as a means of socializing or preselection. Making a woman your best friend is like having a guard cat, it does not warn you when somethings wrong and you have to do to all the work yourself; rather than lightening your load a guard cat adds to it. Such is a female bestie!

Moving on, a bestfriend is a confidant, someone that challenges you to do better. He is that guy you can call at 2 A.M. when theres a bump in the night or someone needs to dissapear. He lets you know that you have a muffin top and better hit the gym. When you are being a wimp, he lets you know to step up and stop being a coward. If you are ever burdened with trauma or the weight of the world, he will help you make gains to make carying that load easier, or he will help you himself. Imagine who you want with you when you are making a final stand against the barbarians that are at your door. When is it ever a good idea to have a woman fill that role?

Woman as Soulmate and Madonna

I once saw a movie where a guy says to a girl "you complete me" back in the day i used to think that was romantic but now it looks like absolute simping. First off there is no such thing as a soulmate or "the one". And expecting another person to complete you is folly. You complete yourself. Thats what this forum is for. To throw that expectation on someone else is ridiculous. Even back in the day, courtesy which was a martial code of conduct got so cucked that it became "that my lady is the inspiration and the source of all that is good in me." Simping is nothing new. And it should not suprise you that our ancestors simped badly. “To fall at the feet of an imperious mistress, to obey her mandates, to implore her forgiveness, were for me very sweet enjoyments; and the more my lively imagination inflamed my blood, the more I appeared a lovesick lover.” Rousseau. This modern romantic idea of love is responsible for much of the simping we see.

As I am sure you are all very well aware, women are not the source of all that is good. If you thought that, then you would not be on this forum. Youve no doubt had some rude awakening about female nature, and you paid the price for it. Im sure I dont need to tell you that confiding in a woman your weakness is a bad idea. I will not tell you that seeking her validation is the road to misery. And I definitely will not tell you that women say one thing but do another. You do not need these warnings, for you are an intelligent man. and your goddess has not dissapointed any of your covert contracts ever!

Of course she did!

And she was right to do so. She will go along with your delusion and screw some guy that does not pedestalize her. Women are fickle and have the peroggative to change their mind whenever they please. Whats a man to do when his soulmate sucks off the football team? Theres only 1 soul mate so hes got to make it work or else. These ideas are dangerous and will ruin your life.

Final Thoughts

So that was quite a bit but heres how my conversation with Rick ended. Rick told me that he knows that what I am saying is true but that he wishes it wasnt so. He told me that he will try to find a girl with whom he can just speak clearly and concisely all his wants and needs. Not all of what he said is bad per se but well you can lead a horse to water and all that. Im sure most of us have been where he is at and understand that force feeding him is not doing anyone any favors. I am not a tyranical bunny and dont impose my views on others and yell:unless im calling customer support and get saddled with and ai chatbot. Any who women are good for all sorts of things.Its hard to meet between the sheets when she is a goddess levitating above you. Take women off their pedastal where you put them and bring them down to earth where they belong, where you can ravish them!

Sincerely

Alpha Bunny 🐇