Usual day, installed bumble and got a match, things were going good on text and calls,she said she is new to Bangalore and she is here for her cousins wedding shopping, on the 2nd day of chatting she said “I hate texting and calling and I believe meeting in person”. I thought this is the one where your efforts are valued. She asked me to meet near Rv college and told me she is reaching in 5 mins, I reached there and called her where I got to know that she is still on her way and she is already waiting for me in a cafe . While talking to her I noticed that there is a lot of disturbance and noise around her ( first red flag)she said she is using the washroom of that cafe upstairs and asked me to come and sit in the cafe on a corner table . I drove to that cafe which was remote and had liquor shops( those shops where people stand and drink) and an oyo beside it ( 2nd red flag). I didn’t call her when I reached there  and thought let’s have a tour around and my god that place was filthy af, I thought how can a girl who is new to the city asking me to come to this place and she is already using a washroom ( 3rd red flag), I stood there and called her and she said she is still using the washroom and the second minute 2 men stood near the window of that cafe scanning for me , I made my mind that I’m not going in no matter what happens and  this is a trap and if I go in by any chance then either kidneys or life is gonna be take for sure 😂, i told her that I find this place a bit shady and I won’t come in and please can you come out and asked her that we will go to some other place , she was pissed at me and started yelling at me “ ek Anjan city main muje Milne bulaye Ho or nakre kar rahe Ho “ the people around me were watching this beautiful scene where a guy Is getting bashing from a hot girl ( ya she was hot , dhoka aksar khubsurut hi hota hai), she insisted me to go to that same cafe , I was still polite to her saying sorry but she started raising her voice , I said enough of this drama , I joined my hands bowed to that hot witch and told her that I’m extremely sorry for wasting her time and drove back home. I still think what would have happed if I would have went in. I guess some of my good deeds(I guess i had done some good deeds) saved me from this disaster.


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