20 years of Pluto in my 7th house begins, what's in store for me?
Been analyzing my chart. Relationships have always been tough for me. I developed hyper-independence early, around age 12. I’m 34 now and don’t attach easily. I want depth, but I struggle to build anything long-term, including friendships, and I keep attracting people who are superficial or the opposite of my values, so I tend to cut them off.
I’ve been in two long-term relationships that were abusive, but I’ve finally learned from those patterns.
Now I’m entering a long Pluto transit in my 7th house for the next 20 years. It feels like the universe is pushing me into relationship work, whether I want it or not
My question is: what are the chances I can build real relationships with people who do the inner work as well? And is finding a partner and starting a family in my mid to late 30s actually on the table for me? Children?
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 4:05 AM UTC