It’s been 10 years and husbands ex is still posting about me in the most unhinged ways

For context: I’ll call her SD for the sake of the sub but she is my daughter till the day I die. I’ve been in her life since she was 2. She’s the best and I love her to bits. Her mom abandoned her a few years ago and got that whole side of the family to turn against SD. She was always a trash parent imo but no kid should be abandoned or be treated that way. Before she up and left she was HC. She would weaponize CPS and make repugnant accusations against me and my son when he was as young as 6.

Maybe 6 months after their relationship fell apart, we met and quickly fell in love. (I will say it was fast which does suck to be on her end of that situation) Because we met within a year of their split- I stole him. Two years later we had a child together and got married a few years after.

In the beginning I really tried to be civil but HCBM made it impossible. She was insane and would make up the most ridiculous situations to be the victim. I had to give up after maybe a month or two of genuine effort. Because of this she swears we were best friends. Literally just because I spoke to her. I never hid my position or intentions. I was only speaking to her because she was his ex and they had a child together. But if you asked her, I, her bff, snuck around while they were deeply in love. Even though I’d never even heard her say a slightly neutral thing about him. She’s just impossible and insane and I had personally cut myself off from that for my own mental health. She was so bad that there was a few times I almost left my relationship because I couldn’t deal with her second hand.

Today, SD came up to me with a huge grin and said “can I show you something” and pulled up HCBM/trash bag’s TikTok. SD was mocking her, eye rolling, talking so much shit at her endless pathetic victim posts and badly edited selfies.

But the best one was a series of very similar selfies with a nice long caption about how she survived an abusive marriage. Had her husband stolen by her best friend who quickly got pregnant while they were still together and how she’s this strong survivor. It was all just so delusional. I try to keep my feelings on HCBM to myself and away from SD but my eyes rolled so far back into my head I’m surprised they even came back. HCBM has been spewing this insane narrative since day one but for some reason I’d thought she’d let it go when she let her own daughter go like a bad habit.

I just wanted to share. I’ve been living in this girl’s head, rent free, for over 10 years. At this point, it’s just comical. Gurl needs therapy. Desperately. TEN years clinging to a relationship you called abusive but will leave your kid in? Not trying to rationalize with an irrational person, it’s just crazy.

HCBM’s have to be some of the worst people after dead beats. How lucky to land this two-in-one!

TLDR: HCBM swears we were BFFs simply because I’d tried to be civil with her. She genuinely believes I stole her husband and got pregnant while they were together. She’s been saying this for 10 years now. Shes clinging to this narrative more than she’s clinging to her child that she abandoned years ago.