I’m going straight to the point.

Can I have my partner finish in me if my copper IUD is my only Birth Control Method? Is it safe enough? Is it worth it?

I’ve had my copper IUD for about a year and half, and to this day I pair the IUD with condoms + pull out. I know… and I’m getting tired of it. I’m pretty paranoid about it, I’ve heard a lot of stories of copper IUD pregnancies, and a baby is a nono for me personally since I’m still young. It makes me frustrated that after the painful insertion, the heavier cramps I deal with + horrible cramps before my period I can’t fully enjoy my sex life with my partner.