41 [M4F] #Online/CT what are you thinking about today?

41 year old male here, live in the NE US. Married for half a decade and while we're still in an ok spot, it's starting to feel more like we're roommates than partners. We no longer flirt and our sex drives have moved in opposite directions.

I guess I'm looking for someone to fill that void here. I know it's not the best thing to do but we all have needs and some of mine just aren't being met here.

I want to have someone who's excited to talk to me, someone who wants to flirt with me and someone who wants to have some fun during the day or at night.

I like to think I'm a smart, funny guy, have a good professional career that lets me live a comfortable life and looking for someone in the same spot in their lives. I work at home so have plenty of time during the day to chat. I don't have kids but am not against talking to someone who does but would prefer that you also have a partner so we are coming from the same spot in our lives.

My hobbies include reading, tv, music, movies, hiking, travel, finance and more.

In the bedroom, I'm more of a dom and would prefer someone submissive who wants to have some fun online and is missing it in their personal life.

Discretion is important but would like to have a long term thing going with anyone I click with(which I know won't be easy so I'm casting a wide net here). Would want to share a picture early on so we know we find each other attractive.

Reach out, open a chat and let's see how we get along. Let's talk about ice cream and other random shit :).