Not sure how to feel.
Hi
Me 19M matched with a 18F, convo was flying well, they asked to meet up in the following week as they were busy in the first week not a problem. Messaged them at the start of the following week and they apologised saying they had to go back to their hometown as their dad wasn’t well and that the following week should be fine. I said not a problem. They did message me next saying they’re on their way back, and we should arrange something for next week. I said great, and arranged something. I followed up and said if they still want to pursue as I may be busy at some other times. They responded saying they may have to go back to see their dad again, I said that’s fine I don’t mind waiting until everything is good for them.
Now that was 2 weeks ago and not sure how I should view this? Of course health is priority so I don’t expect a response but I’m not sure if their still interested and I don’t want to bug them by messaging them as I said I don’t mind waiting. So I don’t know if they’ve lost interest and are ghosting or that they will maybe message me again when things are good on her end but the longer the silence lasts the more I think the former outcome.
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 4:15 AM UTC