ENFP + INFJ (F) as romantic partners?
I know this gets asked a lot re what are the best romantic / love matches for an INFJ. But in my experiences with friends and colleagues, I honestly think ENFP is 1000% the best for me, and that's what I'm aiming to marry/date long term next (man or woman).
I'm a 28 F, bisexual, INFJ. I borderline sometimes get INTJ, but 95% of the time, it is INFJ.
Three of my closest friends are ENFP, and we get along SO WELL. We had an instant connection when we met. We can talk about almost anything, for hours and hours. We have so much fun together! It feels natural and easy. Their E qualities bring out the best in me, while the NF qualities make me feel understood and supported.
I'm mostly dating women these days. But I've never had an ENFP partner, which is my next "goal" and something I'd love to try (and find)! Obviously, I know that there are other aspects (attachment style, values, ethics, etc.) to dating/romance/building love beyond the MBTI personality, but honestly, I think having an ENFP as a foundation would be a fantastic start.
I have dated other INFJs, INFPs, and ENTPs before, but they never worked out. They were too introverted and too thinking, respectively. And I felt a little bit drained.
Any other INFJ-ENFP pairs out there that have done well? Dating for a long time? Besties? Married? Kids?
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 4:17 AM UTC