Negan, Governor, and Shane

just finished my first watch, super new to the fandom. i know that negan, shane and the governor are AMAZING villains and actors (also very gorgeous). that i can understand liking them as a character. HOWEVER im super concerned with how many people genuinely love these men forgetting the horrible things they've done especially to women. everyone forgets shane attempted to rape lori at the CDC, the governor was horribly sexually inappropriate and threatening with maggie, and negan manipulated and emotionally exploited and abused multiple women as his "wives". i'm not saying they're bad characters, i hate them like the show wants me to and i understand loving a brutal villain. i'm just wondering how the hell people think these guys are redeemable at all after that kinda thing, idk, be nice pls 💕