33 [M4F] #Seattle - Trying to find a cute little innocent nerd in the streets, but a kinky little freak in the sheets.

NSFWM4F

Hello,

Much like the title suggests, I'm looking for a partner who quite literally displays themselves as an innocent, cute, little, nerdy princess for an outward appearance. While also secretly hiding their primal, kinky sexual nature to only be shown to their partner. I'm open to many different types of dynamics (which I'll explain further), but one thing is certain: I've always had a very high sex drive, and I also want a lasting bond.

I wouldn't describe myself as being overly Dominant, or aggressive, but rather someone who enjoys being very sexually active with their partner. That said, I have plenty of experience with being in total control or being a 'Owner'. Here's some dynamics I'm open to participating in, all of which can be altered depending on who;s interested:

1. Owner/Pet - I've had 2 separate relationships which focused on this dynamic, and both had their unique qualities. The first pet very much wanted to live their life like a house animal, complete with cages, toys, eating arrangements, etc. It was odd sure, and took time to acclimate with each other, but it was still a turn on. The second pet took it in a more sexual route, choosing various outfits that expressed the 'cat girl' persona. Additionally, in private they enjoyed walking around in nothing but cat ears and a tail plug, practically begging to be fucked all the time (and it was very consistent).

2. Master/Slave - This dynamic sort of takes the Dom/Sub roles to the extreme, basically establishing the Master (myself) as being in complete control over the Slave. Essentially, I would make every decision in your life and you would align yourself to be of service 24/7. I've never had a relationship such as this, but I'm open to the concept if desired.

3. Dom/Sub - This is the most common I feel, and the one where I have the most experience. In my view, this dynamic can be easy to maneuver around different areas of life. For example, our roles can appear very subtle in public areas, almost none existent, while completely unhinged at home. This can also include things like DD/LG (Age gaps can be kinky too).

Originally, I never sought out BDSM style relationships. They sort of evolved around me with previous partners and sort of shifted my goals and what I'm looking for. Turns out my partners were all very kinky and sex positive, which changed my focus and I learned to adapt. I always had a very high sex drive since puberty, but my eyes have been opened in this regard.

Physically speaking, I'm not a very tall guy. Being 5'3, it's easy to be overlooked, but it's never stopped me from enjoying myself. I also have one of those sweet 'dad bods', which is kind of the norm for guys around my age anyways. I have a beard, 1 tattoo, and wear glasses. Currently, I live alone and work full-time, spending my off time at home most nights.

Aside from what's previously mentioned above, I'm not super picky when it comes to my future partner. While I'm on the shorter side, it would be preferable if you were also very short, but it's certainly not required (I've dated plenty who're taller). I have no preference over your race, ethnicity, religion, skin color, etc. Age is also not a huge factor, though you must be at least 18+ (Obviously)

My only stipulation is that you're close, so we can have an IRL relationship. Anywhere near Seattle or even the PNW is fine with me, as I have no issue traveling short distances. I'm not interested in long-distance or strictly online connections, as they have burned me in the past and can be a waste of time.

Feel free to reach out at any time. I'm an open book and would love to chat with you. Please use the code word: lemons so I know you read the whole post, and please take the effort of introducing yourself.

Thank you!

Posted Dec 1, 2025, 4:17 AM UTC · locked

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