If your spouse divorced you for AP, how long did their relationship last ?

Please be kind today. My ex-husband had left me overnight in 2024, for the other woman. It’s been 14 months and they’re still very much together. Just hoping to hear back from internet strangers today. I am searching for comfort in hearing real life experiences from betrayed spouses.

If your spouse divorced you for their affair partner, how long did their relationship last?