I want 2under2 to keep the Same stage of growing together. Did you find closer age gap or bigger age gap is better for efficiency?

We know we want two. Our first baby is 11 months in a week. We are trying to see if we should try for baby no 2 next month or wait another year.

Another consideration for us is that we are in our late 30s so we also want to just get it over with because we don’t want to TTC pushing 40,

But in your seasoned opinion, please give me your words of wisdom. Should we just rip off the Band-Aid and go for the second and last baby next month or would you say it’s worth waiting another year?

I’m thinking if they’re closer than age, then they will likely go to the same school for the most part and just have the same stages so I’m not dropping off one kid at one school and another kid and a different school and things like that.