How to come out and re-come out

Comment- this is a repost because I felt like the original post just did work. Its edited but I really feel like I need more advice before I come out. And also I picked a name and it used to be Kate (2022/2023) the nothing but at the moment I lwk love Caroline. Tell me if its any good or not. Thanks <3

How to come out and re-come out

OK so I am trans. And I've knew for pretty much all of my life. And in 2022 I came out to my mom as trans and she surprisingly took it very well and was supportive of me for a while. But then, I said I wasn't because my mom was getting a little unsupportive but not too badly or hurtfully. But then I re-came out in 2023 and told my mom (again) and she took it awfully and then stopped talking to me for a week until I said I wasn't. But really I am and I never felt like it left, I just felt more ashamed. And then my dad, I never told him but in around last year he has been complaining about trans people which has been making it harder for me to come out to him.

And the thing is really should I wait an extra year because like I don't want to ruin any of my relationships with my family or anything but aswell ik I am and I think its time to kick-start on it at this point.

How do I come out?