22 [M4F] #Hampton Roads, Virginia - Just an inexperienced dorky firefighter looking around for a long term IRL FWB or more!

Hey howdy hello! Hope you enjoyed your Thanksgiving and the days after! But it's still getting colder, which is the perfect time to find someone to keep warm. I like to put a tinyyy bit of effort into things so I know this might be a bit of a read, but I hope something catches your eye in the process! So without further ado:

What I'm looking for: To get everything out of the way I'm testing my luck around for an IRL FWB, someone who we can benefit each other and help make the days a little better. I also want to put the emphasis on more than just the sex part. I like making real connections, and having trust in someone is pretty important to me. Being able to talk about day to day stuff and hang out and actually learn more about each other is probably just as appealing as the whole benefits part haha. I also will say I'm not against something serious and committed too, because I'm a complete sap at heart who likes the idea of a relationship; sexual intimacy is just a way to gauge compatibility and makes things less daunting in comparison haha. I'm not the kinda guy who likes a one and done deal either; I like something long-term that you get to properly learn each other! Plus it makes the actual fun times more enjoyable too imo ;)

And now let's talk about who I am, in helpful bullet point fashion!

• I am now 22 years old
• I am a white male currently still living with my parents (living is expensive)
• I am a full time firefighter and recently certified paramedic
• Despite all of that I am absolutely not a big burly mustachioed guy and am in fact small awkward twink who has been described multiple times over as “cute”
• I'm 140lbs and 5’8 tall so I think they actually had a point
• I'm a total nerd and am into stuff such as video games, DnD, board games, writing, and airsoft believe it or not
• I love alt/rock music such as Blink, Lincoln Park, The Killers, Green Day, and Paramore. I will also simultaneously not hesitate to sing along to the entirety of the Hamilton soundtrack and to lose myself in the vibes of Odesza
• I generally don't talk politics but I'm definitely left leaning if that's important (I mean it's Reddit cmon)
• I own my own car (I need a car enthusiast to school me)
• I don't smoke period. Never been interested and I'm not allowed to for my job, sorryy
• Couple of SFW pictures on my profile to gander at
• Clean tested a couple months ago, am happy to share results!
• Uhhh I think that's it?

Oh and yeah lemme talk about the sex stuff causseee that's a pretty big point of this entire post after all aha. I'm generally a very inexperienced guy irl, and haven't had much luck in that department. I've only had like three flings in my life, and I've been kinda craving some fun and intimacy again since then. I also want to work on my sexual experience so I can be better and hopefully give someone a good time, because in the end I want to be able to give someone a better time than they give me. Overall I'm a very vanilla kinda person, and I am a very easy guy to please. I might enjoy exploring basic stuff but I've never been interested much in the more extreme kinks. I'd consider myself a soft switch in the sense that I find it incredibly hot for a girl to take charge here and there, but I enjoy trying to take the lead when I can too. Overall though I'm just a gentle guy who has a light-hearted un-serious approach to sex haha. More than anything I'm just looking for someone who is understanding of my inexperience and happy to have an eager guy who's happy to learn for their enjoyment! And I've found that for some reason it's easier to meet people when you get the intimate stuff out of the way first, makes you feel like you can be a lot more open with each other. So who knows, maybe you'll be the one that we find out clicks with a little bit more!

Now I should probably say who I'm looking for myself! So here's a good summary of who I'm hoping you will be if you stumble across this post:

• Lives in the Hampton Roads area. Preferably on the peninsula side haha. I don't usually have a lot of time to travel depending on my schedule, so I'd like to keep it within an hour of Hampton aha
• Is single. I'm old fashioned and like my sex to be about one person. Exclusivity is big for me too; both for emotional reasons and sexual safety purposes.
• Preferably around my age range, since I usually relate a bit better, but older is fine too.
• Has incredibly low standards and wants someone to yap at them in bed about nerdy fixations after sex

I think that's pretty much it honestly. Just be a real person and that's more than enough for me! Like I said I don't like it being purely about sex, so just be open about yourself and see if we vibe!

If any of this somehow caught your eye or you've made it to the bottom, then feel free to reach out to me and shoot a dm! Try and introduce yourself a bit so I know who you are! And I'm more than happy to share more pictures early on so you know whether you'd be interested or not, since I know physical attraction is a big part of things. I promise I'm easy to work with and will answer any questions you might have :)