My Bestie got a BF and she has stopped talking to me

Rant/Vent

I met my bestie in 2022 and we are friends and we mostly online we have met only for like 5-6 times and we used to talk like 2-3 days per week at night mostly and alot of reel sharing. On 25 Oct we met and we went to a show after that our friendship has gone a downhill. After a week our meeting she blocked me for 2-3 days on ig and I was angry and I called her and asked her about it she gave me a weird reason that I used N-word while chatting multiple times (I shouldn't have done that) but atleast tell me that you didn't liked that and then blocked that was a weird reason tbh later she went to a wedding out of town later she went on a trip outstation with her friends and we don't talk much in that time which was understandable and while in the wedding she again Blocked them I again confronted her she told me that I was using phone in the wedding Notification of you sending reels was making my family members suspicious about you, talking to a guy is a taboo so I blocked again it was a bit understandable for the past few weeks I saw she never replied my text and didn't react on reels so I stopped sending her reels for a week and radio silence from her side so I called her today and asked her what happened and reconsider our friendship and she said that she is in a relationship, I was furious that she didn't told me about him and still that's not a reason to not to talk to me, she said I don't get alot of my time goes to talking with him and I was like what??? I replied " So you won't talk to me?" She said no I want to talk but I can't time and I will text you don't worry and all

I don't know what to think I am reconsider this friendship and she has had BFs before and I was never ghosted. Another Friend is going out of my life. I have few friends and one of them is ghosting me idk what's happening

Posted Dec 1, 2025, 6:51 PM UTC

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