AITAH for asking this woman what she valued about our friendship?

Years ago in college I talked to this one woman and I asked for her number. She gave it to me. At some point I texted her and asked her if she would like to get coffee or something with me. She said "hey I just want to be honest. I'm not looking to pursue something romantic with you but I value our friendship and I just want to be friends." I said "what aspect of our friendship do you value?" I realize that this was kinda snarky and I apologized to her for that later.