i hate making moves

Advice Needed

hellooo, i'm a hs senior and i've started to like someone from school. the problem is it's literally the worst time to have a crush as i'll soon be graduating. and well, where we are going... it's sort of promising, but it's most likely going to be a very tedious slowburn. i've been doing some unobvious moves like texting occasionally, also we are in the same club (i joined because of them lol).. i could say we are friends, but i still feel like i know so little about them, and we've known each other for 3 months already. i haven't had a crush that i'd want to act on before so i've been finding it difficult to understand is obvious hitting on and like what really making moves is. because for me, i think i am pretty obvious that i am interested, but i can come off as just friendly. however, i could same the same thing about them lol.

ive suggested some plans before but it didn't work pretty well, as they live in a pretty controlling and strict household. so one-one hangouts aren't possible to happen very often. i feel like i should i dunno, alter my behaviour in some way or be more braver in text at least. should i just try suggesting to do something together until it happens orrrr lol

Posted Dec 1, 2025, 6:53 PM UTC

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