People shouldn’t use these subs to preach misery

I’m autistic and have adhd. I struggle with school, economy and general tasks. I know it can be difficult. But sometimes i see such whiny self pity borderline incel stuff in this sub that i just wanna delete reddit.

I feel this way with other neurodivergent subreddits too. Adhd’ers whining about the people who actually care about them and try to help but do it “wrong”. If you’re venting that’s okay i guess. But if you’re insisting that life is inherently shit and you haven’t even done the first step of acknowledging you want a better life, i don’t think you should share that with the world. A lot of it is not even related to said diagnoses. If you’re addicted to porn maybe go to a porn addict sub.

Some of these subs just become a cesspool of misanthropy and misery where happiness is not encouraged but outright banned. Stop whining bro. It’s damaging. Society wants you to be miserable. Be a rebel