22(M4F) #online #Iowa - Curious to try and search for a new submissive partner

Hello! Hi! It's the start of the week and hopefully something new. I'll start with an introduction. Please bare with me.

My name is Xander, and I'm a 22 year old guy who lives in the US. I'm 6 foot tall and I would say an average build with a little muscle that I'm working on just for better health. Besides being stuck with the same old routine of eat sleep and work as the world, I tend to spend a lot of my free time relaxing. That usually is on my computer, games, or something simple around the house. My attention can be somewhat scattered at times and that leads to some hyper fixation on a game or creative project or the complete opposite of almost doing nothing. It can also lead to social anxieties too. That's not to say I don't get out, I love exploring nature and the beauties it holds. I'm comfortable getting somewhat lost as long as there's a trail of bread crumbs to follow back home lol.

I've been exploring kinks and sexual interests for a while. I consider myself a switch but definitely more dominant. I have found some of my greatest interests have been pet play, the structure of a d/s dynamic, hypnosis (when communicated), sadism, control over another's pleasure, and some cnc (when communicated properly). If you want to see more it's on my profile pinned.

I DO NOT WANT ANYTHING to do with scat, gore, body fluids, knife play, cuckolding, personal info, blackmail. Not my thing, I'm sorry.

I've discovered that I am polyamorous, and while have a devoted partner or two by my side is what I want, I still enjoy talking/flirting/temporarily having some experiences with others too. I take communication, boundaries, and understanding very seriously. If I'm wanting respect and to be seen as an equal, then I should show you the same 1000% I've found my own safe word is "sin" wink wink as well as how effective the traffic light system can be.

Now what I'm looking for in a submissive partner. Something that can start online and possibly build up to a IRL relationship. I can see myself with someone my age or some what older, that right now doesn't bother me. I'm actually quite attracted to women older than me. I ask that you understand the importance of a conversation or just a good moment in each other's arms. Sometimes we can't be strong, that's ok. Please let me know if any of this resonates with you and what you enjoyed about me.