Ask a pro Domme #2 - What do Dommes actually get out of having subs?

Another question that I got here was "what do you Dommes get out of subs exactly?"🤔

I am speaking from my knowledge and experience, as I do not have psychology/sexology degree.

To be honest, answers are as different as the women:

• Some start doing it for money (spoiler: IT'S NOT FAST MONEY it's real work)
• Some love the worship and ego stroke of being called Goddess 500 times a day
• Some are sadists who get off on giving pain or watching someone break beautifully
• Some are sensual/soft Dommes who crave the intimacy of guiding, nurturing, and being obeyed gently
• Some are control freaks who finally get to run every detail of someone’s life exactly how they want
• Some of us can’t live their dominance openly in vanilla life because of patriarchy, stigma, or judgmental families → online becomes the only safe place to unleash that energy
• Most of us are a cocktail of all the above

At the end of the day, every Domme keeps going because she gets some form of deep satisfaction, whether it’s financial, emotional, sexual, psychological, creative, or all of them mixed.

Dommes:👠

What’s the number-one thing YOU personally get out of owning submissive?

Subs:🐾

What's is your cocktail for submission?