My ex came back after months… but it feels pointless now.

So after 7–8 months of no real contact, my ex suddenly reached out called me on my birthday, messaged me sweet things, acted warm and familiar. At first, I was confused. I thought maybe she missed me or wanted to talk about us. Said there is some things to be said about her life. I engaged in the conversation because I wanted to know what’s going.

But since then, it’s been hot and cold. She sends vague updates about her life, doesn’t respond for days, but never actually opens up or says what she wants or calls. Been like a month of this.

At this point, I don’t think she knows what she’s doing. And honestly? I’m tired. I cared, but now I just feel like I was pulled back into something for no reason. I’m not angry. Just done trying to read between the lines.

What does she want and why now ? I don’t get this behaviour.

I was finally letting go and I’m dating someone else now, but it still fucks with your head to be honest.