Lesbians who’ve dated women with kids - what was it actually like?

I recently hit it off with someone on apps… who also happens to have kids 😅

If you’ve dated a woman with children (or are currently doing it), I’d love to hear what the experience was like for you. How did it change the relationship dynamic? What were the challenges, the surprises, or even the unexpectedly great parts?

I’m just trying to go in with open eyes, so any real experiences: funny, chaotic, wholesome, or complicated are super appreciated. Thanks in advance!