Everytime i make a joke about being pregnant my fiancee banishes the idea.

Everytime i make innocent jokes about a pregnant belly, for example after a meal that made my tummy bigger, my fiance just makes comments like “wtf lol do normal” or “don’t be so silly”, “act normal”. It seems like he doesn’t like the idea of me carying a child or impregnating me. We have had a relationship for 8 years now and we only had sex 3/4 times WITHOUT a condom (i don’t take the pill).

He almost NEVER speaks to me like he wants children with me or that he would love to see me pregnant of his child etc. All the loving things i see online, read in books or see in films or hear from others. Just now, i saw a video on instagram about a husband chasing his wife bc he wants a 4th child. Like WHAT??!! This is normal behaviour?! 🥲

A bit of me dies inside everytime I say something about babies and he makes a comment about it, or just does not answer, or even worse: he just says “haha” or “okay.”

Fml this is only the tip of the iceberg of things that bother me

Okay just needed to get this off my chest