Questioning here m29 m36
3years of dating
Would you guys have left if this happened to you.
You got into a relationship with a guy you met. The initial reason you guys met was a hook up but the hookup didnt played out and instead you guys became a couple.
He doesnt want to have sex for all sorts of different reasons each and every time.
Anyways you get over it and start to only see him romantically and keep your relationship just as is.
One day you move in with and months later he quits his job, is unable to hold himself up, doesnt qualify for unemployment, does not have health insurance since he quit.
He is actively looking for a new job but struggles to find. He does DoorDash on the side but his car eventually gave up.
Now he needs to borrow your car to DoorDash after you get home from work.
Like all of the problems are financial and sexual. Yet the romance is still there.
You still laugh with him, sleep beside him, you both cook for each other (even though you buy the food) you guys spent 3 years together and you want to get past the financial difficulties.
He did so many things for you when he did worked. He took care of you after your surgery. He paid for dates just as much as you. You saw so many beautiful things together before the hardship started.
Yet would the financial and sexual thing be the reason you break up?
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 7:04 PM UTC