Was I gaslit?

Hello All! I was seeing a guy who gave me a lot of his time: -he drove far to see me -we spoke one the phone / video moat days -he paid for dinners

This is all awesome sfuff.

That said: -he didn't seem to want to put in much effort to make me orgasm (we slept together 6 times and he didn't do much to focus on my pleasure). -not sure our values aligned (he was into watching social media content that goes against my values). -when I addressed the above he was quite upset and told me I had doubt and confidence issues. -he told me he often was the giver in sex in past relationships so was just trying to enjoy for himself now.

I felt horrible after that convo...like I got beat down for bringing up my concerns.

Do you think I was being gaslit?